18+ · Product first · Tools when you need them

Safety that stays out of the way

WhoWansta is built so you can Hello in the room, then Radar with heading + distance so you can walk over and meet. Safety tools come after that story is clear — not as a wall in front of Hello.

Try matching — Hello, then Radar What is WhoWansta?

Phone try starts unmatched. Hello first, then Radar heading + distance. Consent, safe word, and status page live under Me after mutual Hello.

1. Hello, then Radar first

Mutual Hello unlocks Radar so you can walk over in the same space. Radar after mutual Hello is heading + distance on this phone, not live Bluetooth. Un-match anytime and they leave Radar.

That is the night: Hello, then Radar heading + distance, then meet. Everything below supports a real meet — it does not replace walking over and saying hi.

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2. Optional tools after Hello, then Radar

A
Mutual kiss consent

Profile toggle: require kiss consent. If either of you has it on, both tap I consent before logging a kiss. Radar heading + distance still works — consent is a green light for a kiss after you meet, not a gate to meet. Either person can revoke. Not a legal contract for physical contact.

B
Safe word + Safety Mode

Your safe word stays on-device (never uploaded). In Safety Mode with the app open: one recognition revokes match consent and logs an event; three times in a short window opens a full-screen path to dial 911 (pre-filled), sound a siren, and SMS a safe contact with location. No silent always-on wake word. No silent auto-dial.

C
Safe contacts

Designate trusted people outside the date. Share a meetup: they get a message (from your phone) with a live status page and you run a check-in timer you control — “I’m safe,” +30 minutes, or end. Contacts see first-name status only (no GPS track on the status page).

What we refuse to fake

Privacy in one line

Location only while you’re Available — latest position only, no history table. No third-party ad SDKs. You choose who can Hello you (including window-shop without appearing). Full privacy →

18+ adult product. WhoWansta is for same-room nights among adults — not a kids app, not COPPA-positioned. Ghost mode, block, and report are first-class.

Hello, then Radar Back to home

On the phone try: Matches first (Hello), then Radar heading + distance, then Me → Safety for consent, safe word, and status.

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